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A shared family iPad or Mac, and your photos

Short answerYour pictures are on that iPad or Mac for one of a few reasons: it's signed in with your Apple Account, iCloud Photos is syncing to it, or you're in a Shared Library or shared album. Look at Settings on the device to see which. Then either turn off iCloud Photos on that device, sign it out of your account, or give each person their own Apple Account. Nothing here is urgent. Each step is aimed at the shared device, not your iPhone, but read the choices Apple offers as you go.

Why your photos are there

Apple says that with iCloud Photos on, your photos and videos are kept up to date on your devices, and that you should sign in with the same Apple Account on all of them. So if a family iPad or Mac is signed in to your account and iCloud Photos is on, your pictures will appear in its Photos app. That's the system working as designed, not a fault.

Apple also says that when you delete photos on one device, they're deleted everywhere you use iCloud Photos. So our advice: don't delete the pictures in the shared device's Photos app to get rid of them. Use the steps below instead.

The other two causes work differently. A Shared Library and a shared album send pictures to other people, whichever Apple Account they use.

How to work out which one it is

  1. Check the account. On an iPad, open Settings and tap the name at the top. On a Mac, open System Settings and click your name, as Apple's steps do. If the account shown is yours, that device is signed in as you.
  2. Check iCloud Photos. On an iPad, go to Settings, tap your name, tap iCloud, then Photos. Apple says to turn iCloud Photos off by deselecting "Sync this iPad". On a Mac, go to System Settings, click your name, then iCloud, then Photos. If "Sync this Mac" is on, it's syncing.
  3. Check for a Shared Library. Apple says a Shared Library lets you share photos and videos with up to five other people, and that all participants can add, edit and delete content in it. On a Mac, open Photos, choose Settings from the Photos menu and look for a Shared Library tab. On an iPad, go to Settings, tap Apps, then Photos, and look for Shared Library.
  4. Check your shared albums. A shared album holds only the pictures put into it. Apple says the album's owner can choose to only allow people they invite or approve, and that deleting a shared album removes it from all of your devices and your subscribers' devices.

If the account on the device is someone else's, your pictures are probably there through a Shared Library or album. If it's yours, it's the sync.

What to change

Option 1: Turn off iCloud Photos on that device only

Apple says that when you turn iCloud Photos off on one device, uploads, edits and deletions stop syncing between that device and your others. You can keep a copy of your photos on the device or remove them. Apple warns that if you don't download a copy, optimized photos aren't the original resolution.

Our advice: choose to remove the photos from the shared device, not keep a copy there. Apple says the change stops syncing between that device and your others, so your iPhone shouldn't be affected, but check that your pictures are on your iPhone and in iCloud before you remove anything.

Option 2: Sign that device out of your account

On an iPad, open Settings, tap your name, scroll to the bottom and tap Sign Out. On a Mac, open System Settings, click your name, then click Sign Out. Apple says anything stored in iCloud stays available in iCloud, and that your iCloud data is removed from the device unless you choose to keep a copy when prompted. It lists iCloud Photos among the services that turn off. So choose not to keep a copy. Apple also says that with Sign Out But Don't Erase, if someone else later signs in to that device, the leftover data merges with their iCloud data.

Apple also says to make sure you have an up-to-date iCloud backup first, and that if you don't know your Apple Account password you should change it before signing out of a trusted device. On an iPad, there's an option to sign out but not erase. Apple says that with it, most data stays on the device, and Photos is on that list. If you want your pictures off the iPad, don't pick that one.

Option 3: Give everyone their own Apple Account

This is the lasting fix. Apple says each family member needs to use their own Apple Account, and that if you share one, your data gets mixed together because some services treat you and your family member as the same person. Apple says Family Sharing lets members share purchases and subscriptions without sharing personal information such as emails, text messages or passwords. For a child, Apple's steps are to set up Family Sharing first, then on the organizer's device: on an iPhone or iPad, go to Settings, tap Family, tap Add Member, then tap Create Child Account. On a Mac, go to System Settings, click Family, click Add Member, then click Create Child Account. After that, each person signs in on the shared device with their own account.

If a Shared Library is the cause

Apple says a participant can leave a Shared Library at any time, from Settings on an iPad or from Photos Settings on a Mac. You choose to copy everything into your Personal Library, or only what you added. Stay signed in with iCloud Photos on until it finishes. Our other guide covers this in more detail: a family member shares my iCloud.

How FirstHour helps

FirstHour has no iPad or Mac app. It can't see or change what's on a family iPad or Mac, and it can't sign that device out for you. What it offers is on your iPhone. The Vault stays on your iPhone and is left out of iCloud and computer backups. It isn't a fix for a device that already shows your photos. Those stay there until you turn sync off or sign out, and someone may already have seen them.

To see what's worth moving, find the sensitive photos on your iPhone. For how a Vault compares with the Hidden album, see which do you need.

Questions

Will signing out delete my photos?

Apple says information stored in iCloud remains available in iCloud. Apple's sign-out steps are about the device you sign out of, and they don't describe your iPhone being changed. Still, make sure you have a current iCloud backup first, as Apple advises.

Will the family notice?

Probably. Photos disappear from the shared device, and anyone using it may ask why. It's easier to say so first. If you have any reason to fear how someone will react, read our guide on sharing an iCloud account first.

Does a Shared Library or album need iCloud Photos to be on this device?

Apple says setting up or joining a Shared Library needs iCloud Photos turned on. Turning it off on one device is a different step from leaving the library, so check both.

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